The Big Lonely

What if inside each of us Is the Big Lonely.....It could be the Big Lonely hole from neglect, hurt, abuse, or lack of any of the important facets that help us grow whole and happy.

Sometimes the lonely is easy to mask. Other times the lonely weighs heavy on our heart. Sometime the big lonely is vast as the universe. Sometimes you look like you have a firm grasp on reality, but you feel lost and sad.

I know these feelings. We all do. There it's out there....phfewww. I often tell myself...self, you shouldn't feel this way. Self, you are blessed beyond measure. Self, you have so much. Yet, there are still those other feelings to be worked through.

We all have valid griefs and losses on the path of life. In the interest of moving away from those discomforts, we sometimes dodge working through them. Sophie, runs from most everything and in the processes misses out on a lot of love. Reno has loved her all these months she's been with us. Her fear keeps her from being lavished with love from a kind gentle man.

So what fears keep us - you/me/we from being lavished with love? And, more importantly, how do we release the Big Lonely and move towards the love available to us?